Loiriam’s blog

Peaceful Joy at the House

🌼2020🌼

Historically saying, what on your mind for a day. And that when it comes to the New Year’s Resolutions, think of a plan for a day.

This year 2020 should be in peace and joy and Christ may live in the hearts of us followers through faith.

My resolution is to blog while I don’t work physically a week, not weekend. Normally I do not blog on every weekend. Because of weekend is for fun activity and for church. But for work, too. Because of at work, most customers/guests need to eat in&out/sleep in and shopping, playing fun things in the business company like McDonald’s, mall, hotel, etc. on the weekends.

I’ve believing that blogging is a nice place for writers to write what on their mind.

New Year’s Eve was peaceful joy. I was with my love and a good moral friend at the house. Drinking and dancing joyfully peace. But this time I do not drink until summer of 2020. I had some good time.

New Decade 2020s

Today is the last decade of 2010s! Let’s see how I change for 2020s.

My body

need rest

but an effort to care

I do my best

To take a good care

of my body

My hair

thick

and curly

blow dryer

and coconut oil cream

ready to straighten my hair

My fashion

to display what I wear for the day

My life

how I feel

poor and working

doing the chores

learning

and much more life

My finance

create a budget

earned income

spending

saving

making payments for the bills

an effort to say no to give money

All these are what my 2020s will be like. But all these are what I did in 2010s. And every year is the same thing. Nothing is changed and that call “same”.

Are you ready for the new decade? If so, happy 2020!

The Tragic Story of Theft’s Victim

I was referred to Club Freedom by my false friend. Club Freedom offered me a free vacation. I at first bought it $200.00 with my old debit card. My website was at http://www.clubfreedom.biz/loveloi20. I would receive $6,000.00 if I find two affordable people. My false friend believed Club Freedom was better than working in the local jobs. He was stoking about getting more money! However, this didn’t work because we couldn’t find two affordable people. So, he found another way to get more money is Club Freedom coop. It was at http://www.cashandtravelcoop.com. Who owned it? Keith Hannam. He is from Canada. His business email address was at CFcoop@yahoo.ca. I bought it $40.00 for Western Union money order check with my young brother and his former girlfriend on June 12, 2007 after I finished McDonald’s work at 2:00P.M. Then I sent it to Keith Hannam. He emailed me that I crossed out his name and changed to my name on under the dollars of money order check. Keith told me he would return a money order check to me. But he didn’t do it. He was holding it longer. Until February 22, 2008 occurred my old bank account statement said: “05-T”RK H00000000000000 STANBUL TR” over drafted $674.03! And then happened again on June 17, 2008 Western Union over drafted $362.00! I have never heard that Western Union is so smart with touching my bank account before when I do not know how they do that. I thought Western Union is a trustworthy, but not. I gave Club Freedom my personal information such as the name of my bank and debit card. I told my false about what had happened to my old bank account. He was surprised and pissed it off. He felt sorry to me. But I do not believe his excuse. He told me that he had never heard Western Union is now touching people’s bank account. He is a lucky devil man who he is not victim of Club Freedom. So I closed my bank account and I paid $158.53. I had lost hundred and dollars in my bank account. I was crying a lot. I felt so disappointed with my false friend offered me join Club Freedom. Club Freedom is scam. Although he believed it is real and so he destroys my life! My God! I felt so stupid. I wish that I should have not listening to his false offer.

I’m a Victim of Terrible Rental Service

On March 2016, I became a client of residential day program at Family Service Foundation in Frederick, Maryland. I was referred to that service by Heather Hunt, PHD, my former counseling therapist. She is not a professional counseling therapist. I came into day program on every three days, Monday, Wednesday and Friday. I sat down and listened to what I learned from day program. It’s interesting to me. I’m thankful for learning all about life in the real world.

On April 25, 2016, I moved to townhouse in Frederick and my former roommate came in to live with me. The cost of living was not easy. I paid not just rent, but everything. The money I earned was not directing to me, but to the rental service. From the beginning, I paid $633.00 a month for that service with the attachment of billing paper. Until October 2016, the rental service had stopped sending me the billing statement. I then stopped paying $633.00 a month without my knowledge.

Until then occurred on February 2017, I received a letter from Social Security stated that they lower my income. I was like, What?! I showed this letter to my residential supervisor. She read this and asked me if I keep paying the rent. I told her that the rental service had stopped sending me the billing statement. She said that I still have to pay, wishing me should have told her in October 2016.

Well, well, how can I pay without the billing statement? Never know if there will be the new amount of payment that I do not have? It is ridiculous for me to pay without the attachment of the billing paper. I don’t know if any of you ever related to my experience. Maybe I’d be the first victim history of the rental service in Maryland. I am not sure if I need an attorney to help me file the lawsuit against Family Service Foundation, but I have no evidence. Because of Family Service Foundation does claim the truth and so I cannot sue it rental service. But I do hope my case need to be solved and that rental service should be under investigation. Because of they did not send me the billing statement which is I believe that it is not right.

Currently I employ as a housekeeper, and I do my best to improve my finance.

My Goals for 2020

A Landlady Glimpse on Tenant’s Property

I do not have a wish. As when I look back, I wish that a landlady glimpse into my property and so she does not want more than me renting her home. But still, I do not have a wish because she wants more money; she does not need to be satisfied with what she have. And so a landlady commanded me to give the exact gifts, she won’t let me to give whatever is from my heart. This landlady is inhuman to me. She preyed at me, took my wishes away from my dreaming vacation and man. And so I lost my saving money. What this landlady views on saving account, let me explain.

The saving account is one of a wish to happen. For example, a tenant is trying to save $100 a month for her dreaming vacation. She want to make sure that her landlady is not touching her saving account. But a landlady is so careless about her tenant’s dreaming vacation.

A landlady views on saving the money is not for her tenant. It is for the billing department and the needs of other people. She’s really a devil woman! And her mind is total nonsense. Because of her goal is not always glimpse on her tenant’s property but want more than just renting her home.

Will all landlords/landladies do what my former landlady did to me? They should not. They should be satisfied with their tenants renting their homes. Because of they have no rights to take more than their tenants rent their homes. Sadly, however, my former landlady of Rochester, New York is a devil woman who she glimpsed on my property.

My old home in Rochester, NY from 2009-2010

A Roommate

A roommate might not be for everyone. Well, some people like, some don’t. But in my preference, a roommate is not for me. I’m my own roommate. It’s nice to live on own where peace is. However, a roommate is supporting to each other, and that is the best occupation. Unfortunately when one of a college student think of a roommate. She treats her roommate as her maid, and she uses her time and money. It’s disappointment. A roommate should do what the world means about money. There’s NO FREE in the world!! The people, therefore, have to pay for anything. A roommate should expect herself to buy for anything. Because of this is the world where she is.

And, about the amount of time left to a roommate. As when it come to a shared bath, a roommate should share the bathroom with. And the chores that a roommate should do. Taking a turn is not what a roommate should feel ‘ah, wasting my time.’ A roommate is allowed to give time to one another as fair.

What do you think of a roommate? Do you feel that a roommate needs to improve better at home?

Housing Needed

Soon 2020, and I hope I’m ready for it. Because of I have some plans for the new year. However, I still have no place to live. I need to find it before the new year start.

I have read a lot of news talking about homelessness. It sheds my tears when having a problem with access the home. I can’t imagine in the future all people will have no house or no apartment when the rent or mortgage keep high and high. Why high? Because of damage the property. But what if some of the tenants who have never been damaging the property? Is that making sense? Well, some of them are innocent and the owner should not charge them. This should be enough is enough. Home is for everyone. It’s time for vacant the homeless people to the home. Do you know why they need a place to live? Because of they are…

•not the wild animals.

•home that keeps them warm from cold outside, keeps them cool from hot sun, keeps them dry from rain, you name it.

•rest on soft bed, not on the street.

•needy for food, clothes.

•needy for bath to keep them clean.

•needy for more space.

•Etc.

This is why home is very important. Without it, life is short. Like crazy people who beg for food. It’s really sad to see the homeless people feel unloved, uncared and sad. All they need is love and care. Pray the Lord for finding a home.