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How to Find a Job and Keep It?

While you are in school, you may be interested in working a part-time job after school rather than participating the academic sports to help out with personal or household expenses. Unfortunately, in during the bad economics though, limiting and demanding for unskilled workers have made jobs harder to find. But, how can you find a job and keep it? Here are some good tips below:

How can you never give up your search for a job?

Do not go out on 2 or 3 interviews, then go home, and sit and wait. You will never get called for a job that way.

Looking for a job is a job to do. You would spend 8 hours a day each weekday for 7 months looking for a job. You would start early each morning and ‘work’ till 4:00pm. Many nights your feet would be sore. The next morning you would have to ‘psych yourself up’ to start looking again.

Where can you find a job?

If you live in a rural area, you can start to search in local farms and orchards, or you can look for some type of yard work.

If you live in a large town or city, try looking in the newspaper help-wanted ads. Or, today is the technology. Many job seekers use online for searching for a job like Monster and CareerBuilder.

How to Keep Your Job?

A worker who is always doing a good job and that show his boss is appreciated. Will you do the same way?

You have your own skills that always serve to your king. You never will want to work for people who are not a worker. These lazy people must get up and go to work for themselves.

What are some skills and qualities that the employers appreciate in their workers?

1) A worker who is willing to listen more than to speak.

2) A worker who let people finish talk to him before he try to answer them.

3) The jobs must have good communication skills.

4) A worker who mind his own business. He does not involve the gossip about his workmates.

5) A worker avoids a bad reputation.

6) A worker does not steal the money and things from his employer. Also, he does not take advantage of his employer for leaving the work early.

Ephesians explains about the stealer must stops stealing and starts to work.

Matthew warn about the future will be happened to the issue of politic that causes the bad economic. Such like the wars and food shortage. This possible will lose your job.

However, if you have faith, you will not be worried about ‘where will I live? What will I eat? And what will I wear?’

The next blog post will explain about what career you decide to choose.

How Can You Get Along With Your Teacher?

How can you get along with your teacher? It is not easy, but here is the good advise for each of you student. Follow the good tip below:

You can’t stand with your teacher who is not fair to you. Is that because of she favored other student than you? No surprise that you are not alone. In 1981, the 160, 000 students in America blamed their teachers because of…favoritism!

You are upset when you get low grade for what you feel is high-grade work. You resent it when teacher discipline you seems not fair. You get so mad at the teacher’s pet.

Granted you, your teacher is far from accurate. She has a strange occurrence, problem, and yes, she discriminates you. But do not hurry yourself in your spirit to become offended.

If your teacher does not stumble in what she teaches you, then she is a teacher with perfect teaching skill. So do you doubt if she is not that way?

You notice your teacher snaps at you and your classmates. Will you tactfully approach her and cause her in the unfriendly way? One teacher explained: “It’s just that I had a problem with my car this morning. It overheated on the way to school and I got to work late.”

Your teacher faces unique demands and pressures, you know that. But if you act like you don’t know, then reread the quote of the book Being Adolescent. It describes your teacher as facing a “serious predicament.” Do you know what word “predicament” means? It means “difficult or unpleasant situation”. She must try to hold attention of you and your classmates because of minds are wandering. She have before you and your classmates of highly moody, distractible…generally not pay attention to anything for more than 15 minutes.

If your teacher is not nice to you and you sow her cruelty, don’t be surprised if you reap a mean, hostile teacher. Remember the golden rule: Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law… You refuse to join in the classroom pranks. You are attentive to what your teacher says. You are cooperative. These are what you does to your teacher is lawfully. Then maybe she will feel a little less hostile toward you.

However, if your teacher does not like you, she may be inclined to embarrass or humiliate you and the common hostility may flourish. Try not to return evil for your teacher and make her to stay angry at you. You are not necessary to confront her. Don’t complain at your teacher. In fact, try to be friendly. Why do you have to be friendly at her? You ask yourself. The reason is the manner is customarily showing respect to your teacher and politely to say ‘hello’ when you come to classroom. Also, a smile will affects her mood to change her opinion of you. 🙂 True, you cannot always smile, but remain calm and come to the classroom for learning. You can fix a problem of that situation.

About a better grade that you think is deserved. That is a common complaint. Try humbly talk calmly to your teacher and tell her what the problem is. Maybe you can start to ask your teacher for helping you to understand her grading system. Then try to prove yourself the victim of error rather than of bad judgment. And show her where you see is not your grade. But if your grade is not changed, then you have to show maturity toward your teacher. With positive and impress her.

Let your parents know your situation. Then when an open house is dated, your parents will be there for explaining to your teacher about your situation. The next blog post will tell you how to find a job and keep it.

Why Won’t Kids Leave You Alone?

Why are the kids won’t leave you alone? Here is a reason you need to understand.

Before your first day of school, did you feel afraid of going back to school because of bullying triggered you? There are some bullying ones happen at school. Even since a group of young boys, for instance, once insulted Elisha. They did show disrespect to his office and cried out: “Go up, you baldhead! Go up, you baldhead!”

This is me even though the bullying ones don’t like my hair, calling my hair “bushy”, I still be me self…

One of the authors who wrote Growing Pains in the Classroom recalls when the author was in 9th grade said, “Being the smartest kid and the shortest kid in the room was a disaster combination…” In addition to call ‘a walking dictionary’… The author of The Loneliness of Children adds: ‘Children with disabilities are ready to target for teasing by other children.’

Many youths are defenseless in the face of peer cruelty. One youth recalls the reason of teasing and annoyance that each classmate does, he was so scared and unhappy… He couldn’t concentrate on his studies.

God does not view the butt of bullying as a laughing matter. Consider my experience of a childish middle-aged woman who she did not leave me alone. She did show me her rough personality. She was always insults me and assails me. And she took my future as making an envy not in herself, but makes me feel envy. Until I moved out to the new area as to not see her again unless if I can afford to visit. Actually, I’m not envy. She is envy toward the love of young women. I know that it is not necessary for me to malice her because of I let God takes care of her.

Why does it bullying you? It is because of the bullying ones don’t view as a Christian as you are living in Godly standards. You may wonder how they leave you alone. At first, try understand why they tease you. Laughter is happened to a group of youths harass someone. Often the bullying ones believe that putting someone down make them feel better.

The bullying ones also jealous at you when you are exceptionally bright or favored by your teacher. They are insecure, trust me. Jealous is unloved as the insecurity. Likewise without love is death as hate lead to death.

Are you going to be happy when there are no bullying ones in your school? Rarely, try to return evil for evil to no bullying ones and keep conquering their evil action with only the good example. Additionally, do not let any bullying one break your spirit. Granted, it hurts if someone pokes fun at your looks. It is not necessary for you to malice them unless your looks improving the inner beauty and better. But, if someone still laugh at you, see their humor in it. Laugh at them and prove them wrong. Remember the bullying ones want to entertain your reaction and your misery. So the best way is to defense yourself and ignore them.

King Solomon further telling you to not pay attention to everything people say about you. If you believe in God and have a friendship with Him, you are so strong that you have confidently to withstand the unjust verbal attacks and physical attacks. The next blog post will explain how you get along with your teacher.

How Can You Improve Your Grades?

How can you improve your grades? Here is the good advise for you to know what you do with your studying habit.

How many students concerning about grades and tests? Many, right? Okay, have you wondering the school grades are a major source of anxiety among the students? You know them grades and tests have their place. Because of this is what a teacher do to her students. She frequently tests their understanding. One book Measurement and Evaluation in the Schools explains that the test results can reveal the areas of students’ strength and weakness.

Too much concern about your grades can create your problem. On what is your problem? Paralyzing stresses. You know when you fail your test, you cannot blame your teacher. You are taking the responsibility to learn. As my previous blog post explains “the teachers are impossible to teach the chronically absented students. And they are too impossible to know better than the teachers because the teachers have teaching experience.”

If you say, “I do study.” then where is your result? Your result is going to reveal your weakness. So better say nothing than your action of studying.

Where can you study without your family meddle you? Try a public library. The library is a good place for silent readers where they read a book or magazine without using their voice for talking. Or, wherever quiet place is up to you.

Your study routine is helpful when it comes to your method of studying. Try organize what you are going to study. If you fail, don’t worry about it. You can try again later. Discern your teacher’s comments on what kind of test it will be, such an essay test or multiple choice. Also, before taking the test, listen for the clues as to what will appear in the test. It is important to remember what you study for the test. Try sleep early, wake up for breakfast, and be prepared for the test. Then, you will be fine. Next post will be explaining a reason of kids won’t leave you alone.

Should You Give Up Your School Life?

I am writing the story of how school is value to everyone’s life.

My aunt is a retired science teacher. She had graduated from her college and have a teaching degree.This photo is taken by the spring of 2008 where she took a field trip with her young students.

Imagine my life without going to school for twenty years, what would I do today? I would learn NONE! It is no excuse for not going to school. Why not pardon? Because of communication with people is key, know what to do, and have assertion to success. If I did not go to school, what would happen to me today? I would act much knowing nothing and become dumber and dumber. And the worst part is, I’m a Stupid woman in the whole world! That is no fun, no funny, and no pardon for not going to school. Would you want to be like me if I never go to school for about twenty years? What’s your answer? Think of that. It is okay to outright yourself and share your feeling about school rather you like it or not. If you like school, cool! But if you do not like school, then you have to go through with an endurance. If you dropout the high school at age 16 or before graduation day, what would happen to you? You will have no job, right? If you did dropout your high school and you frustrate that you cannot find a job, will you go and get GED classes?

What is the reason of giving up your school life? You can’t pass the tests? You can’t make the good grades? You can’t achieve the awards? The kids bullying you? School shooting? Teachers are hard to get along with you? And, other reasons? These reasons I will explain the next following blog posts, okay? Now we focus on school life. Does it surprise you of the numbers of youths choose not to go to school at all? No surprise at the teachers are impossible to teach the chronically absented students. And they are too impossible to know better than the teachers because the teachers have teaching experience.

The Education is Value

Do you realize that you need an education? If so, then why? You reasoned the ability to lecture the people of what you had learned at school. Your education is value to prepare you for a successful adult life. Take the good example of wise King Solomon said about school: “knowledge and thinking ability”. The school can help you nurture and grow your ability to think. And it can also help you to analyze and create the productive ideas. The school does make you use your mind. The truth is, school supplies you to study language arts, math, social studies, science, biology, geography, home economic and such more. You think that these are not relevant to your life. But read a good guide book that Barbara Mayer wrote. The name of it is “The High School Survival Guide”. It will tell you how school is important to your life. Also read the other book called “The Enduring Effects of Education”, too.

School and Employment

Learning in school can lead you to your future employment. If you do not go to school at all, watch at what will happen to your life. You understand that quitting school is poor. And you understand that you learn that hard way. A lot of times you’ve applied for jobs and you couldn’t get hired because of you do not have a high school diploma or college degree. It is obviously the students who really learn the basic skills such as reading level will have the better job opportunities.

You are better

Know your strengths and weaknesses benefit you. In school you learned how to work under pressure, how to take a test and how to express yourself. Your school proves more powerful have trained you the right way as disciplined you and get trained your mind creativity.

For that reason, it makes good sense for you to take full advantage of your school years. How can you do that? Let’s study at school. And I will write the next blog post about how you can improve your grades.

My Morning Meme

Here is what I likely to answer this quiz.

What color trousers are you wearing right now? Well, right now my trousers is colorful.

What are you listening to right now: None

What are the last 2 digits of your phone number: 13

What did you eat last? Oatmeal cereal

If you were a crayon what color would you be? Purple

How is the weather right now? Partly clouds and the temps are in the 80’s.

Last person you talked to on the phone? My baby’s doctor place.

How are you today? I’m fine.

Favorite Drink? Lemonade juice

Favorite Alcoholic drink? Wine

Favorite Sport? Volleyball

Hair Color? Brown

Eye Color? Dark brown

Do you wear contacts or glasses? No

Siblings? 4 brother, 3 sisters

Favorite Month? February ❤️

Favorite Food? Spaghetti

Last Movie you watched? The Resilient

Favorite Day of the Year? My birthday!

Are you shy? Sometimes yes

Summer or winter? Summer

Hugs or Kisses? Both

Chocolate or Vanilla? Chocolate

Do you want your friends to write back? Yes

What books are you reading? The Bible

What’s on your mouse pad? I don’t use it.

Favorite Smell? My baby 🥰

What did you do last night? I put my baby to sleep in his crib.

Feel free to answer whatever questions you would like in the comments box or post this to your Facebook.

Ruth ❤️

I read Ruth chapters one and two. On Chapter one lesson is Ruth was firmly go with Naomi. She said to Naomi:

“Entreat me not to leave you, Or to turn back from following after you; For wherever you go, I will go; And wherever you lodge, I will lodge; Your people shall be my people, And your God, my God. Where you die, I will die, And there will I be buried. The Lord do so to me, and more also, If anything but death parts you and me.”

I like Naomi said to her two daughters-in-laws, Orpah and Ruth:

“The Lord deal kindly with you, as you have dealt with the dead and with me. The Lord grant that you may find rest, each in the house of her husband.”

And chapter two is about Ruth went to work and gather the ears of corn in the field of Boaz, a very wealthy man. Boaz was a relative of Naomi’s husband, Elimelech. Boaz commanded the young men, the reapers not to disgrace Ruth while she worked. And Ruth was told to work with Boaz’s handmaidens. And I like the question of Boaz that he asked his servant about Ruth the young woman at the beginning of her coming to work and gather:

“Who is this young woman?” ❤️

Ruth found grace in Boaz that he took the knowledge of her. He spoke to her in the friendly way. Boaz explained to Ruth that ‘she had done to her mother-in-law since the death of her husband and how she had left her parents and her country, Moab (in Jordan), and she came to the people she did not know. And God paid her work, and a full reward that He gave to her.’ And Boaz told Ruth at the mealtime to come to the place where she went and eat the bread, and dip her morsel in the vinegar. She sat down with the reapers and Boaz reached her parched corn, and she ate it, got full, and then saved what left. Naomi said to Ruth that Boaz was the one who took the knowledge of Ruth, which the LORD blessed him. ❤️

I want to be like Ruth who went to work and found a man interesting in taking the knowledge of her. ❤️ I have been single for almost seven months and I want a grace in working again. I started to pray. I continue to pray as 1 Thessalonians 5:17. And I continue to share my faith with people. This will be blessed and hope that God will give me a nice husband.

Alphabet Meme About Me

A is for Age – 36

B is for Booze – No, I only drink wine.

C is for Career – Homemaker

D is for Dad’s name – Ramon

E is for Essential items to bring to a party – Cookies

F is for Favorite song at the moment – Dancing by Kylie Minogue

H is for Hometown – Buffalo, New York

I is for Instrument you play – None

J is for Jam or Jelly you like – Strawberry

K is for Kids – One blessing

L is for Living arrangement – One story, three bedroom, 2 baths

M is for Mom’s name – Myriam

N is for Names of best friends – They are private.

O is for Overnight hospital stays – one birth, and twice times pregnancy complicates.

P is for Phobias – I have panic attack.

Q is for Quote you like – Delight yourself also in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.~Psalms 37:4

R is for Relationship that lasted longest – None

S is for Siblings – Four brothers and 3 sisters

U is for Unique trait – I can think of something to talk about with anyone I meet.

V is for Vegetable you love – I love potato!

W is for Worst trait – Not the best chef.

X – is for XRays you’ve had – Teeth

Y is for Yummy food you make – Mashed potato

Z is for Zodiac sign – I’m a Gemini.

Feel free to take this meme to your blog site or Facebook post and answer the whole tamale.

How I Overcome the Shyness?

I recall a story of brave little girl who she was around her neighbors and other people in her island. But then a teenage girl had stopped associated with people. So she isolated herself in her bedroom doing something. Since I am like so shy as Moses did to the Israelites.

What is Shyness?

A shy person is not easy to associate with the people. It can be a victim in a variety of ways. Some embarrassed by not answering to the questions of people and so a shy person find him/herself unable to speak. Also, it is hard to speak up and comment the opinions or preferences of people.

When a shy person restricts you, you realize that he/she affects you and harms his/her relationship with you, work with you, and your feeling, it is time to do something about it!

Shyness describes a person’s behavior, reaction to situations, the pattern he/she have learned and enhanced through experiences with others.

How I Overcome the Shyness?

I can change from shyness to talk to the people with time and effort. Love is outgoing and if I have that, I think the best of people, not the worst. So I learn to quit assigning bad motives to people. Because of I may never know that they’re going to be understood, they’re going to be kind, and they’re going to be considerate. Trust people but if they judge me, that are their problems.

Also, I learn the need to start showing love in an active way – to extend myself more to others. I am sensitive to their needs, to think in terms of helping them. Remember that God is the only one can judge the people, not you. You can’t judge me and them because you don’t know what we do in our day. So show your love to us as you know, no one is perfect.

Overcome the shyness

Want to change; change is really possible

Think positive with positive action

Set the goals for myself

Know how to relax and cope with anxiety

Rehearse a situation beforehand

Gain confidently; my experience will progress successfully

Remember that differences of opinion exist and that others err too

Practice increases the skills and learns the new ones

Reach people; show them love and help them

Dress tastefully and act with confidence

Get Start

When I meet people, I can be sociable by starting to say hello and then to a conversation. If I do not feel clumsy to what I plan to say, I don’t feel bad. If others laugh, I laugh with them. Stand up straightly; look pleasant and smile. Eye contact to others and get involved in the conversation with them.

When I face a tough situation like job interview, I’m prepared. Rehearse beforehand what I will say in job interview. That way I will overcome the shyness. As I see the positive results, I will achieve the success.

How Can I Make Loneliness Out of My Life?

In the serious story of my life, I feel like loneliness cut me off from the world, makes me feel lonely, useless, and empty. It’s not so cool. It’s bloody as hell! And because of that is a warning sign, like the hungry people need food to breathe and live. Loneliness warns me that I need companionship, closeness, and intimacy to make me feel well. At that point, I need a lot of friends to build me up instead of like a weak cottage near the lake that occurs to eventually collapse and destroy.

What I Do When I’m Alone But I’m Not Lonely?

When I’m alone on travel, I always love to see the nature and that gives me the bright pleasure.

In old times, I used to like writing the letters and mail them to some of my friends. But now I have email and Facebook, I can send a message to each of my friends and tell how was their day. It’s not how lonely I am, because of I know they like to receive a message as not to make them say ‘boring’. We are not missing because we can stay in touch by using email, Facebook, instant messaging, text messaging, Skype, or videophone at all the times.

What is chronic loneliness?

Chronic loneliness is the victim of people who have no one to talk to for the longest time and feel neglected or shunned. That is not so cool. A person who have experience of three things that victimized him:

1. ‘He feels unattractive’: He feels bad when he cannot find a woman that loves him.

2. ‘He feels uninteresting’: He feel lonely when nobody is interesting to talk to him.

3. ‘He feels worthless’: (As depression.)

Breaking My Loneliness

I need to get involved with other people. I’m working on widen out and show my feeling for them. I care for others and I motivate others to take an interesting in me.

In my view on some of you say, “You get me attention on you. Don’t get me attention.” is the main way you said that to person causes him or her to feel lonely in the world. What do you think? Do you think that lonely people are nothing? The good answer is no. Why not? Because of the loneliness is a warning sign, the lonely person need friendship. So, your saying that to a person is really wrong and it’s so disgusting. I just need to let you all know that it is my view, and yes that is serious and true.

I know when I sit back and wait for people to talk to me is not working. I have to be friendly and talk to them. Otherwise people will think I’m stuck up if I do not associate with them. So at first, I starts to smile and so they might like to smile me back.

Having a conversation with people is worth breaking my loneliness. I practice with meeting the new people that starts with “Hello. My name is Loiriam. I’m from Buffalo, NY. What’s your name? And where are you from? … Nice to meet you.” Then if interesting, we can make the new friends. After we know each other for the long time, kind acts and a generous spirit will help me to build my precious friendship.

I also remind myself that I will never has a friend who can put me down. If a person who put me down, then that is not a friend.